Bfth's Boring Blog

(Note:  NOT my closet...just a random photos from the internet)  I am NOT a slob, but I'm not neat.  I don't dust or vacuum as much as I should.   I don't make my bed.  (I DO straighten it every morning, but I don't "officially" go in and "make" it.  I can never get it right, which is why while I will do the laundry, it's my husband makes the bed when the sheets come out of the dryer.)  My mother would be appalled.  She was incredibly tidy. (Except when it came to the basement of the house which she basically ignored which is why when my parents moved, my husband and I had a heck of a project.)   Perhaps the neatness "gene" skipped a generation.  My son is very neat and always has been.  He makes his bed every morning.  Of course he does leave glasses (often half full of water) around the house when he is home.  And his art studio (formerly my sun parlor) is very much in disarray.  (But isn't that an artis...

I was out walking this morning and the following things just popped in my head. So I thought I'd share. It’s just the randomness of my brain bubbling over again. The weather this year is completely wacky. Every single Sunday for the past 3 weeks we’ve had rain. (Including this past Sunday when my son came to visit us in the Poconos.  We were supposed to go see the train arrive at the historic depot in our town.  It’s a big deal with music, food, vendors, the museum is open…you get it.  And guess what?  Due to the torrential rainfall it was cancelled.  Ugh!)  This week we're not supposed to have rain not on Sunday but we ARE  supposed to have rain on Saturday. I don't take that as a win. I noticed when I looked at our rain gauge outside on Monday that we had nearly five inches. Of course one inch in that was from the previous week but still.. Of course  this is October and it has been cool during the days. As I noted we've turned the heat on. For a...

  For the third (or is it the fourth?) Sunday in a row, we had rain.  And make no mistake, this Sunday's rain wasn't just rain...it was RAIN. While I am tired of Sunday rainstorms, this week I was particularly upset because our son was coming up to visit us for his 4 day fall "break."  He wasn't coming on Saturday (as I had hoped which was actually a gorgeous day), but Sunday morning.  This was the first time he was driving to our house in the Poconos and being the overly nervous mother, I said several prayers in church that morning and then watched (via app) as he made his way.  (Thankfully with no issues) However because of the rain we/he couldn't do some of the things we had hoped.  (Like enjoy our backyard.)  We did, as a family, go to several antique stores where I find a couple of books that I was looking for.  (I'm a collector of the original Nancy Drew series, but also have Dana Girls, Cherry Ames, Connie Blair and Judy Bolton.  The l...

Does anyone have the most favorite chore? Chores are not supposed to be fun, they're meant to be done. I suppose if I was going to say what my most favorite chore was it would be laundry. I don't mind throwing stuff into the washing machine, hanging it up to dry or throwing it in the dryer, and then folding it up and putting it away. Although I confess that my folding skills sometimes turn more into throw it in the drawer skill.   I'm pretty sure that my least favorite chore is also my husband's least favorite. It is cleaning the toilet. It's gross. It's disgusting. It's not fun.    I often think that the two of us try to wait each other out. We noticed that the bowl is getting a little dirty but neither one of us wants to deal with it. So who will go in and do it? Who will hold out the longest? Usually it's me that gives in first. And it's something I really hate to do.    Several years ago for Christmas I requested a gift that seems a little ...

 And my electric bill is about to go up!  (Actually it already went up prior to the heat going on...) I was in NJ for more days this week than I anticipated.  (That MAY be another blog post...if I dare write it.  Do I?)  In NJ we only have a heating system (a boiler that fueled by oil), no A/C.  (Unless you count the window units...which stay in all year around because with the wacky weather you never know when you are going to need them.  And to go off topic a bit here, when my grandmother was alive she didn't have any a/c.  There were portable fans and that's what you used.  For her last 3-4 years, she was bedridden [which makes me sadder now than it did then...I was an self-centered 20 something and I look back now and feel sorrow and shame] and only had fans in the bedroom.  [Which was not her bedroom.  It had been my mother’s/her daughter's and the caregiver stayed in the room that had been hers.  Now it's my son's and h...

  I recently wrote an article for a church newsletter about scams.   They are all around us and I know we all try to be vigilant, but… I wrote the article because I had recently gotten an email from church rector.   The note was brief:   “Do you have some time.   I have a request I need you to handle discreetly.   I am currently busy, no calls so just reply to my email.” Seems reasonable…or does it? Now of course I’m willing to help (anyone in the congregation would be because like most religious organizations [at least the ones that I’ve been involved with], members are supportive, caring and always willing to help) but a few things caught my eye.   It was signed using his full name.   That’s not typical.   Under that was the title “Pastor”.   He is indeed a pastor, but in the couple of years that I’ve known him, he’s never signed email that way.   Nor does he usually include the church’s name and address at the bottom of his...